" There’s no news like bad news "
— Jonathan Pryce, Tomorrow Never Dies

MRQE Top Critic

The Wings of the Dove


Sponsored links

As a documentary, Mail Order Wife is unethical, disturbing, and completely irresponsible. But as a black comedy, it’s acerbic, shocking, and very funny.

When you go see it, take a friend or two with you. Say whatever it takes to get them to join you, but make sure they haven’t read any reviews (spoilers ahead). You and your friends will see completely different movies.

Behaving Badly

Happy American couple not so happy
Happy American couple not so happy

You, of course, have read some reviews, or at least this one. I’m afraid it’s impossible to talk about Mail Order Wife without acknowledging that it’s a scripted black comedy made to look like a documentary.

Adrian Martin (Adrian Martinez) works in the real estate business. He owns his own car and he has a house. He’s a real American catch, or so he tells his mail-order bride-to-be, Lichi (Eugenia Yuan). Filmmaker Andrew Gurland (Andrew Gurland) is there to record the nuptials for the documentary we are apparently watching. Gurland agrees to pay for half of the expenses, an ethically questionable choice for a documentary producer.

After corresponding with Adrian for three months, Lichi comes to America, and begins her life almost immediately as Mrs. Adrian Martin. But Lichi is clearly uncomfortable with the situation, starting with the proper feeding of Adrian’s snake Chipwich, and continuing through his ketchup-and-beans concoction he calls “chili.” And after that, it’s not even funny what Adrian subjects her to, particularly for your friends whom you carefully haven’t told that this is all scripted.

Blair Witch II

It gets so bad, in fact, that Andrew, our filmmaker, steps in and tries to help Lichi. While Adrian is away, Andrew will come to visit Lichi, or even take her out on the town. After some time, Andrew arranges to move her out of her husband’s house and in with him, all without telling Adrian.

But Andrew, who has a girlfriend, falls for Lichi, and he proves to be no better a man for her than Adrian was.

There is a third act to the film that I won’t give away, but it involves more bad behavior from just about everyone involved.

Mail Order Wife was made cheaply, a look justified by its amateur-filmmaker premise, like The Blair Witch Project. It goes to show that given the right story, even a cheap-ass project like this can be entertaining, emotionally wrenching, moving, funny, all the things that a real, grown-up, multi-million-dollar movie can be.

  • Jason: I met a wonderful woman via the internet. She is from Russia. I have read that Russian women are the most beautiful women. When I found my future bride, we e-mailed each other and spoke on the phone almost everyday. One reason why I chose her, was that she was not the most beautiful women and she was not the some young girl(I am 49). She was attractive and 39.

    I went to Russia for a visit. Only to see her. It was the best 12 days of my life. She was warm, kind, and compassionate. To my dismay, we did not sleep together until the 5th day. So, she was also a "very good girl".

    What perplexes me is that I am going through the I-129F fiance visa process. Everything is going smoothly. What pisses me off is that this looser Adrian was able to get a visa for her in 3 months. That can't be. The whole process takes about 9 months(without any gliches). Plus, as a requirement of the Dept of Homeland Security, USCIS division. A meeting has to take place between the two before she can come to America. 3 months, that is impossible.

    I would like to write to the director of the movie and get a refund. I think this was whole story was concocted.

    It is not a documentary. It is a scam.

    January 9, 2006 reply
    • Olivia Johnson: The Federal Reserve has been stimulating and stimulating the economy by printing more USD. Do you really understand how the monetary system works and how it affects you?

      We are in extra-ordinary times and extraordinary times call for extraordinary measures. How do you ensure you stay on the right side of the upcoming wealth transfer from all the currency printing by central banks around the world?

      Before you make any decision, we highly recommend you invest some of your time to watch and learn from this short series of documentary (designed for the average guy on the street) in youtube.

      This is a video series called "Hidden Secrets of Money"

      This document will explain why it is important you own some physical gold, silver and bitcoin.

      I have personally watched the entire series 3 times and it has changed the way I look at the entire monetary system. Protect your family by owning some physical gold, silver and bitcoin.

      Buy bitcoin here and save 10% from your trading fees at the world's biggest crypto exchange:

      If you are a US resident, you can buy bitcoin here:
      https://bit.ly/3r3oPvQ April 9, 2021 reply
  • Angela: Dude, are you a moron? The movie is a "mockumentary". "Lichi" was in Memoirs of a Geisha. She's an actress.

    Get over it. October 4, 2007 reply